=COUSINS=

A newsletter pertaining
to the descendants of
Robert Pépin and Marie Crête

March 2004 -- Vol 5, No. 3

In this month's COUSINS:

What's New
This month's FeatureMarie-Thérèse PÉPIN, her husband François GRAVEL, and their children.
The Mail Bag
Ramblings From the Editor
NewsLetter info

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WHAT'S NEW

SURPRISE!  The newsletter is out on the 1st!!!!!

THIS MONTH'S FEATURE: Marie-Thérèse PÉPIN, her husband François GRAVEL, and their children

Last month, we looked at Madeleine PEPIN and husband Jacques DUCHESNEAU dit Sansregret

This month we look at Madeleine’s younger sister, Marie-Thérèse, her husband François GRAVEL, and their children.

Marie-Thérèse PEPIN (IIILouis, IIJean, IRobert) daughter of Louis Pepin and Marie Martin dit Jolicoeur dit Lachance, born 27 Nov 1729 and baptized 28 Nov 1729, in Québec

and

François GRAVEL, son of Claude GRAVELE and Marguerite LABERGE, baptized 16 Feb 1728,

married 22 Sept 1755, in Québec City

Madeleine and Jacques had 3 children

Thérèse GRAVEL, bap 24 Feb 1757; married Jacques DEGUISE 27 May 1783
François GRAVEL, bap 2 june 1758
Hélène GRAVEL, bap 7 jul 1759, Charlesbourg; married Joseph MARTINEAU 27 June 1785, in Québec

 If you can add/subtract/change any of this, send it on via email.

THE MAIL BAG

The first item in this month’s MAIL BAG comes from Cousin Glo, whom I can always count on for things of substance. 

To paraphrase her email, she and a friend have been working on the family lines of a fellow named Leonard Peltier, who descends from the Pelletier dit Antaya line.  Now some of you may be frowning slightly and saying, “Who…?”  And some of may be thinking, “Not THE Leonard Peltier…”  To the later, I can say, “Yes, THAT Leonard Peltier.”  And as I told Glo, I had wondered if Leonard was family ever since I stumbled across the first Peltier in the Monster Data Base.  More on Leonard – shortly (but can I do things in any fashion BUT shortly?)

Leonard is the son of Leo Peltier and Alvina Showers.

Leo is the son of Alexander Peltier and Mary Dubois

All Glo and her friend are looking for the Leo’s parents and grandparents, and maybe even his great grandparents.

The other is from a fellow named Joni Pepin (Hey, Joni, welcome to the newsletter. Cousins, meet Joni), who said on 26 Feb 2004 when he signed the website’s guestbook:

I found your site while doing some family research on my father's side of the family. He died when I was young, and I never even met his parents. So I have no idea where I fall in the grand scheme of 'pepins’, but I sure would like to find out. Thanks for the site

 So I meandered on over to his website (http://www.pepinonline.com) and saw that Joni is the grandson of Arthur Leon Pepin and Elizabeth Strogen, through their son WiIliam Francis (1915-1983).  The name Arthur Leon Pepin rang a bell, though for the life of me I can’t remember why, so I asked Joni if he’d like me to post it in the newsletter.  He replied:

 Hi Lisa,

It’s great to hear from you.  To answer your questions:

  1. Yes, please mention him.  I’d love to find out anything I can
  2. Yes, I would like to receive the newsletter.
  3. Sure, you can add my link.  I’d love to hear from other relatives who may be able to fill out my ancestry J (plus, I like meeting new people)

 Thanks again, and I look forward to hearing from you again soon

-Joni Pepin

 RAMBLINGS FROM THE EDITOR

There are few of us who were alive in the early 70s who don’t at least remember hearing about the little altercation on the Pine Ridge Reservation in 1975, the one that started at Wounded Knee February 27, 1973 and ended on June 26, 1975 at the Jumping Bull ranch.  I was 17 years old that year.

My father could and did make some right pithy comments about a great many things in the 70s; a few well chosen words that cut to the heart of a matter with the quick precision of a M.A.S.H. surgeon.  He also had a twisted sense of humour.  And false teeth.

In the early 60s, before my youngest brother was born, our little family of four was seated around the dining table for the evening meal.  As my brother Don was placing a fork laden with mashed potatoes in his mouth, Daddy stuck out his upper plate, waggled it at Don and then sucked it back in with a loud slurping noise.  Don quite obligingly demonstrated that it was indeed possible to spray mashed potatoes through his nose.

Now, I know Daddy hadn’t meant any harm.  He got grabbed by a funny thought and shared it.

 It was sense of humour he shared with his brother.  We had gone on a fishing trip up to Neah Bay, we being Daddy, me, and Don, and Daddy’s brother’s family; Mom has stayed home because my youngest brother wasn’t quite a year old and we didn’t know yet if he was as portable as Don and I were.

One morning, Don and Cousin Joe come running into our camp so excited neither could complete a full sentence; they had just discovered some jellyfish left on the beach after high tide.  Uncle Bud says, "Y'know, you could make yourselves some jelly sandwiches." and Daddy nodded, and before you knew it, their two sons were bolting for the beach, bread and butter knives in hand.  Daddy and Uncle Bud collapsed in laughter that was cut short by Aunt Marge coming in and asking, "Where were they off to in such a hurry?"

Somehow they explained (I can no longer remember the specifics), and Aunt Marge roared after them.  She hauled her son and nephew back, and the first words I could make out were, ". . . and certainly not with my good knives."  She stood them in front of their fathers and said, "Okay, Funny Boys, now explain to them why they really can't make jelly sandwiches.”

Once the explaining was done, they were two very disappointed little boys, but their disappointment didn't last long; Daddy and Uncle Bud took them out to a place out in the Straits of Juan de Fuca called The Hole, and had a good day fishing.

Again, neither had meant any harm.  They got grabbed by a funny thought and shared it.

Up the street from us was a family of 10 and when the youngest child was still quite young, their father died.  Leukemia.   

Daddy was a mechanic, and as often happens with mechanics, he worked on cars in the driveway.  This attracted the sons of the household up the street.  Daddy encouraged this, tucking them up under his wing.  Soon the sons were bringing their buddies and girlfriends, and their younger sister.  Friday and Saturday nights found our house full to the rafters with teenagers and the sound of Roy Orbison, the Everly Brothers, Johnny Cash, and the Beatles.  Daddy was a country western fan but “the kids” liked Orbison, the Everlies, and the Beatles, so he listened to them, too. 

One Friday or Saturday night, with the usual full house of dancing and laughing people, a fellow showed up who looked . . . well, after the quiet question had gone round the  house and it was determined that no one knew this fellow, he was invited to leave.  Politely at first, then when this fellow, with his badly ripped jeans and un-zipped fly and vague smell of having-been-drunk-for-a-while, erupted in a cascade of words that one would normally hear in The Barracks or Locker Room.  Being the early 60s, neither Daddy nor the Boys would stand for that sort of language in front of their girlfriends, sister, Mom, or us kids.  In that quiet no-nonsense way that Daddy had, he gave the fellow the option of leaving on his own or he would be put out – without benefit of the front door being opened first.  The fellow left, threatening dire consequences.  With a smile I’d never seen before and never saw again, Daddy said he’d be waiting.  The fellow never returned.  Daddy had a quite a few choice things to say about that fellow.  All these years later, the surviving kids from Up the Street are still in touch with Mom.

Late on a summer night a few years later, I remember hearing a sound like a single fire cracker.  In less time than it takes to type it, Daddy had Mom and us kids on the floor in the center of the house with all the inside light off, and himself stretched out on the floor under the front window, his .45 auto in hand, with a short stack of full clips.  The next morning the only damage was a small hole in a neighbour’s front window; the verdict was that “some dumb-ass kids” had been “joy riding”.

There was only one thing that I never heard Daddy comment about: Leonard Peltier.

The most reaction I ever saw was him stand up like he was made of wood, his face a blank mask, and he’d leave the room.  No comment.  Not even a deep and throaty, “Bahhhhhhhhhhh.”  Early on, yes, but as things escalated, he didn’t watch the news so much.

My impression at the time was that the whole thing was really unfair to those folks on the Pine Ridge.

Since then, Mom has said that one of Daddy’s biggest concerns was that his children not suffer as he and his brother and sister had suffered growing up.  He swore her to secrecy about his ancestry, an ancestry of which I am only now beginning realize the full depths.  Through Daddy’s father, we have blood ties to the Coast Salish, the Kwantlen, and quite probably either/and Cree, Ojibwe, or Iroquois; through Daddy’s mother we have only the family stories that point towards both the southeastern US as well as what was once called the Dakota Territories.  Stories of tentative ties to the Tsalagi (Cherokee), Muskogee (Creek) war chiefs and the Treaty of Okmulgee -- of my own great great grandmother being buried “on the same reservation as Sitting  Bull” in 1888.  The signs point to my father and his siblings being raised in a household that was all too aware of the liabilities of claiming anything but a nice safe vanilla European ancestry.

What Leonard and AIM were trying to do was alleviate the need for this.  Leonard was, at the time, one of the high level AIM leaders.  I remember the sick cold feeling in my stomach, listening to the news broadcast about what had happened at the Jumping Bull Ranch, still new to the knowledge that I had “some” Native American ancestry and fearful that the violence would spread.

Some years later, it was brought to my attention that Leonard was *still* in prison.  I remarked that I did not believe that Leonard was guilty or that he had pulled the trigger.  The person I was speaking with said, “Nope, he isn’t.  Wasn’t his gun.”   The ballistics report can be found at http://www.freepeltier.org/ballistics.htm#top. Up shot is that it wasn’t his gun.

But still Leonard’s in prison, where he’s been since 1975.  He’s 58 years old, with diabetes, high blood pressure, and a heart condition.  Near as I can tell the only reason he’s there is to be An Example.

For the whole scoop on Leonard, what happened then, what’s happened since, what ISN’T happening, and who Leonard is as a human being, please visit, http://www.freepeltier.org/index.htm   This site includes an address where you can send a donation towards his legal help, and an email and snail address to Leonard himself.   Being as he is a descendant of the Peltier dit Antaya line, he’s probably family.

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